To:

From: Ted Waitt

Sent Wed 10/13/2004 2:07:59 PM

Subject Re: Ted time

## Title: Re: Ted time

Thank you, and I love you. I'm so much happier and freer than I was it's amazing. Just feeling the desire to become a productive citizen again, and I'll fmd time for that. I like the balance this new life gives me, just need some Ted lime. Always have.

I thought there were more private things on the 17th, and the big public event was the 18th. Either way we're outta there on the 18th. and depending on what you have going on I'm very happy to have you come back here with me. Are you still planning on coming back here with me on the 30th?

-----Original Message-----
From: Gmax <
To: Ted Waitt
Sent: Wed Oct 13 08:35:52 2004
Subject: Ted time

Re next week - the week on week offthing is not a hard rule - it has, must have, built in total flexibility - your week on w/the kids will, should, fall into a less consuming pattern for you where you have more time to do stuff for yourself, and sour" week should never just be about us as a couple but about us individually as well - it's perfect 'me' time to be used in the most productive happy way in any and all senses. There is no point in having gone through all the difficulties of a divorce, quitting your job, and all the other changes not to fmd yourself freer more flexible and with more control over your time and what you do with it. All this to say that I am sure you need time for yourself, and if it turns out that we miss a week/I day or 5 I shall cry, retire to my room, don mourning clothes, but will endeavor to survive - Just let me know so I can prepare for the mourning.period :)

Clinton thing is I think just during the day the 18th so you can be back in CA Thursday night - I can come with you if you like and stay through the w/e - let me know if this is what will work as I will schedule some things I have on the west coast for the following week if that turns out to be the plan